I wonder about the state of the black community sometimes. Like why Tyler Perry is so god awful and why ignorance is often embraced more than shunned. I wonder these things because of one reason. These females ain’t choosing a nigga.
Ok, so I might sound like a hater….SO. i can hate all I damn well please. It’s my hatred and I shall place it wherever I deem fit.
All you hear females scream is how they need a man who got a job, got goals, and ambition. You find that guy usually hidden somewhere in the catacombs, commonly known as the friend zone.
I know about that place. More times than a few I have been there. It ain’t cool and its unfair to the guys who think they really have a chance to break that barrier.
Niggas hate hearing about who that girl is humping, who she went out with, what guy she feeling, but you know what they do. They listen, and wait, and listen, and wait. Thinking that somehow her opinion that was formulated in the first 15 mins of knowing them is going to change. Sad news bruggy, it won’t.
You took her to prom. Know her family members like your own. You have shared phone conversations, texts, and even one kiss, but you always going to be “Pook” from next door who cute but just ain’t her type.
Which then makes you question yourself. Makes you think what in the hell is wrong that this girl cannot feel you and what you have to offer. The truth is, it is you and her. You aren’t compatible on that level. I didn’t think that was possible. Not with the things you and said girl have in common, and them special times you share. But honestly, she may not see a future with you.
Its easy for me to say this and I have fell into Simpdom plenty a time. It seems that we are gluttons for punishment. Some guys aren’t born with enough dog in them. You can’t just decide “not give a fuck about these hoes”. You cant just learn how to ignore that call or hold your feelings, so you will continue to lose the battles until you find the one who is able to reciprocate those feelings and actually like that creepy behavior.
its hard for us to accept that some girls just wanna have fun. And while you may not be a bad looking guy, or have the most charming personality, these hoes just wanna do what they wanna do. It may not be easy for them to just come out and state that from the jump, or maybe they do we just ignore it in hopes of wooing someone out of their decisions, but we have to live and let live.
Its somebody out there for you my simping brothers. When you find the one, you’ll know it. When I find the one, I’m going to get married quick so she stuck with my ass.